How To Tap Into Your Sexuality
Posted by Miranda Wilkerson - BSN Certified Sexpert on Sep 21st 2021
I realize that I can post sex tips everyday but if your not in tune with you sexuality, it means nothing. Today we will work on that first.
How many of you ladies can really say that you're in tune with your self, your body and your mind on a sexual level? To reach a divine level of sexual pleasure all three need to be in synch. When I say “divine pleasure”, Im referring to the type pleasure where you are in a looped orgasmic state. This is the level where there are no inhibitions, no shyness, no holding back, and no thoughts except pleasure thoughts. It’s insanely hard because of all the different lessons about sex that’s been taught. Many of which come with restraints. It’s even harder to find a non judgmental partner. Let’s get to it!
- To get a filled level of pleasure, one must be open to explore their body and different pleasure zones. You should want to learn what your body like and dislike. All of it’s pleasure zones. “ Don’t knock it, until you try it” also applies to sex. I encourage you to create space and time to explore all of your body pleasure spots and then explore with your partner.
- Don’t set limitations on your mind. Allow your mind to wonder and be free flowing when it comes to sexual thoughts and feelings. Believe it or not , this is hard for a lot of people. Unfortunately to experience utmost pleasure, you have to set your mind free and if dating, be in a relationship where both partners can be HONEST and willing to talk about the fantasies, or a new found pleasure area on your body. When the mind goes deeper the body reacts. .
- My last tip to great pleasure is knowing who you are. If you truly take the time out to know who you are and what you like sexually and intimately then you will reach a level of complete divine pleasure. But you can’t get here without the other 2 steps. You can’t be completely filled if you are holding back or have limitations on your sexuality.
Kudos to my ladies that are already at this level and to my ladies who aren’t , no worries it can always be acheived. All you have to do is allow yourself the space and your partner also gives you space to tap in.