The Unsatisfying Orgasm

• I am here to tell you that not all orgasms are satisfying… You are wondering how can that be I’m sure.

Let me explain… Orgasms are great and they definitely help me to release tension. Anyone that know me well knows I’m pro masturbation. I typically have great sessions with myself. My orgasms leave me ready to take on the day (after a quick nap lol) But lately I have been feeling incomplete when I orgasm. I feel disconnected from myself.

I started noticing probably for about a month now. My sex life is great with my partner. It’s always full of passion and fun! So it’s not that . It’s me having bad sexual with myself! Yes there is a such thing as bad sex with yourself.

Ok here comes my confession….. I have been using my vibrator! Shhhh we don’t have to blast it out there.(lol). Yes although I am pro manual pleasure, I too will get a quick session in with my vibe. Now I have been vibe free for quite some time but I get weak for the quickies ! So at first my orgasms were quick and to the point. Lately I have a orgasm and I feel “off”. I ignored the signs and kept up with the power until…. Until I felt like the orgasm was against me. Like my Clitoris turned on me and my body rejects it.

Welp I had to have a “come to Jesus moment” with myself. I realized that the reason I stopped using the vibrator in the first place was because of the disconnection with my yoni. I have had the most amazing orgasms with myself when I use my crystal and glass wands, I orgasm so hard and beautifully. I never felt incomplete. If anything I would have to stop myself or I would just keep going and going. I lovvvvve my wands and I lovvvvve Me! My body knows when we are not in synch and she let me know.

I did have a pleasure session with my amethyst wand.It had been a lil while since I used her. I knew I had to warm up to her and bring intention to my wand. My intention was to enjoy beautiful pleasure with myself while affirming I receive pleasure ,I give pleasure, I am pleasure.I also say the same about love.Hell I talk sexy shit to myself. I figure I should always feel comfortable making love to myself. Again,I love myself and you should love yourself too! I had the best orgasm with myself. I felt completely satisfied oppose to unfulfilled. I got my mojo back with myself. So much so I used my obsidian wand a couple nights later. Same great results except this session was a little more intense . 

Ladies I’m human. I’m not anti-vibe by any means.I enjoy quickies, and they definitely help to fill in the gaps that your partner couldn't fill during sex. I just realize the mechanical pleasure can take away your connection to yourself if you do not have a actual pleasure ritual . By any means use the vibrator especially with partnered sex . But if your like me having unfulfilled orgasms , then it’s time to turn inward and take a break from the vibe.

My favorite go to wand is my Amethyst traditional (straight) Yoni wand and I love my Medusa wand! Sometimes I insert my Yoni egg to heighten my energy all the way up!